3.
Kindness?
★★★
I
think I can read girls’ mind and
help them but I can’t see everything that they need. I can't easily say
I'm kind because I can't fully understands what girls want. (One instance) where I
was nice to a girl was when the girl lost the couple ring I bought and I
forgave her.
4.
Activeness?
★★★★★
At
this point, I need someone who can
accept my activeness, I think (laugh). I am very active in everything.
But, when it comes to telling someone how I feel, I'm not active at
all... If I have a girlfiend, I will (actively) tell her "I miss You" or
"I love You" all the time. It's not like "I have to do it (to please
her)", but "I just naturally say it (because it comes from the bottom of
My heart)"
5.
Check on the girl?
★★★（and a half ★)
I
will get anxious if My girl goes somewhere to drink. It's okay that
people get closer over drinks, but I don't like it when she gets drunk
with someone else. It's fine if I was there. It's fine if I can take
care of her. But if I'm not there, I will tell her "Do not drink over 5
cups". (This is) because I can only drink around 5 cups myself (without
getting drunk).
Ø How do you want to
go (on) date with a girl?
I
would want to go to resort vacation with her, relax ourselves. Drinking fruit
juice at the side of resort's pool. Although I like to watch movies, I can't
really go to a movie theater. I like action flicks, comedies... but I really
can't watch horror movies. And I also want to cook with her. I know how to make
ddokbukki and spaghetti. I have never tried cooking with a girlfriend so I
would like to try that.
Ø What is your ideal girlfriend? Did you change your ideal type from
then to now?
I used to like women with wife type. But now, I'd like a girl who can agree with me and who will consider both our feelings. And someone who can enjoy my hobbies with me. Nowadays, I like playing golf, riding horses, doing shooting and archery (laugh). Even if she can do only one of them, I'm already happy. I don't like sport like basketball, baseball and soccer.
Ø What girls'
fashion do you like?
I think if she
wears something that looks nice on her, it will be okay. I don't know
anything about fashion, so I don't really care about it.
Ø What do you
think is the type of girl that will be suitable for a SJ member?
If
it is for Ryeowook, I think the girl should be really feminine.
Otherwise, they won't be able to keep the relationship long last....
Surprisingly, Ryeowook is a conservative man (laugh).
Ø What things
interest you nowadays?
I
want to marry as soon as I can. I want to get married young and build a
good relationship with my wife. I also really want to spend happy time
with my children.
Ø What the type of girl would you want to marry?
My ideal type and my requirement keep increasing (laugh). I want to
marry someone who is a stepford wife type. A girl who loves me and cares
about me. A girl who is shorter than me, who looks nice with short
haircut or one who looks good when she fixes her hair. I like a face
that is not gorgeous, but cute.
Ø
What is the word that you would want to hear from her?
"I Love You" that's it. And I also like compliments words. If she prises me, I'll definitely try my best.
Ø What is the
word that you don’t want to hear from her?
It's
not that I dislike the world, but it's the one I'm afraid of. It's "I'm
disappointed in you". I always try to do my best to live up to the
expectations of people, so that world gives me stress and I get nervous
hearing it. I am the man who is tormented by remorse sometimes.
Ø How do you overcome such stress?
I do meditation. I
really enjoy those times.While listening to music and seeing beautiful
landscapes, I'm able to get rid of that bad feeling. And I try to be
positive. For example, I try to just think that I will not do the same
mistake next time.
Ø Give a word
to your girlfriends (this article’s readers)!
Good night!
O Spring is the season of new life (in Japan) Some
people would want to make new friends in new place. Do you
have any advise for them?
I think you
can get along by doing friendly actions. Try to help or show your
concern for someone. You will make friends that way.
O What is the thing you'd want to challenge right now?
I want to be an amateur golf player. I just started golf (beginner) but.... My father and brother are already
in gold level, so we play golf together sometimes. I have a friend who
is a golf player, and I think he has a very interesting job. I'd love to
try dance sport too when I can find someone who also like it.
O Throughout the
world tour, which country impressed you ?
Thailand. Because Thailand
was the first country we went to and yet, many people welcomed us. We
did the press interview in a basement settled between two department
store. During the whole interview, that space was occupied full by our fans. I was really surprised when I saw that. We could see the fans' faces and their banners. Every time I see such scene, I get very impressed.
O
If you would go somewhere with the SJ
members, where do you want to go?
To a resort spot. Without any anxiety, I want to relax with them.
O You're not
only a singer but you also perform in a musical. What is the
attraction of a musical stage?
At
the musical stage, I can perform vividly, and that is the main
attraction. I think the live stage impresses people more than screen
image.
O Have you
made a mistake on the stage before?
I
am perfectionist, so I cannot forgive any mistake. Some people go on
the stage without the necessary object or something by mistake, but I've
never dome such a mistake. But I did fail before (laugh). At "jack the
Ripper", I sang a song with a higher registered note than the original.
O How did you correct it?
I
acted (laugh). At the last stage, it got difficult for me. And it was
difficult to resist laughing with the other actors and actresses (lauh).
O Have you ever had slump time?
It comes sometimes, but But I enjoy such slump time, occasionally.
I try to think of it as, if I overcome this slump, I will be stronger.
When I did "Jack the Ripper" in Japan, I had to go back and forth
between Korean and japan, and at the same time, prepare for the Super
Show stage. At that time, my throat itched and I could not sing, I could
not even say a world. I had the stage soon, but I lost my voice, I was so worried, but I tried to think that if I could overcome that, I would become much stronger. So, I decided to do it even if my throat might get torn.
I went to the hospital and got some medicine after, and I overcome
that. I think that decision made me stronger, it made me realize that I
could do well on the stage. That i could do it because I threw away the negative thinking, like "Oh my God! How can I do...!" (Because I wasn't thinking negatively(, I am able to do things my own pace.
O How do you
keep your baby face?
